I think most people have figured this out, but this blog has gone down. At least I won't be posting here anymore...why would I? We're certainly not doing any LastChanceIVFs anymore.
Thank God for that.
IVF can be a soul-sucking money-sucking sanity-sucking procedure. It can also be a hope-laden miracle worker, but it wasn't for us. Some days I still can't believe I did five but oh well.
Yes, I wrote that: oh well.
It's fully in the past now. Someone recently wrote a sweet post about how our IVF video was inspiring to them, to which I had to wonder: how could anyone feel inspired by that? We failed. Over, and over, and over, and over, and one more time: over. But I guess it didn't kill us, right? We're certainly still here, alive and kicking and smiling.
So yeah, I'm so over IVF, snark. Which means I'm done posting here on the LastChanceIVF. But the posting itself--well, you guys know it saved me.
Thanks for reading, and supporting, and commenting, and holding me up over here. I really mean that. And I know international adoption isn't everyone's thing, but I hope you'll keep following the story and update your readers, etc. etc. at MyTwoLines. I'll be commenting as MyTwoLines, too, duh, as I continue to follow your stories.
So long, from the LCs.
2 years ago
I have never been so happy to see a blog end. Yay for MTL!!!
ReplyDeleteAdios LC!! I too have never been so happy to see a blog end! Yay!
ReplyDeleteI am soooo happy to see this blog go, not that don't love it but seeing you move on is just wonderful and amazing. See you over on the blog and looking forward to following the next chapter.
ReplyDeleteGlad you're moving on. That's huge. I look forward to my own 'oh well' someday. Not there yet but I'll still be with you on the next journey.
ReplyDeleteYou are amazing and I will follow you wherever you go.
ReplyDeleteWith our struggles and failings, 'how many do we do' is commonly a questioned asked by us and others. We don't know. People tell us to put a max and 'move on' after that-but how can one do that? I admire your strength and your marriages strength for getting through 5. I love that you found an answer with adoption and can't wait to see how your story unfolds and ends in love!!!
ReplyDeleteYay! Very happy to un-bookmark this one!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm so excited for your new beginnings, and your new blog. Thanks so much for sharing so much of yourself here!
ReplyDeleteSo so so happy you're DONE as the LC's!!! So excited about MyTwoLines :) I will certainly be reading. As far as finding your IVF video inspiring...it most certainly is! It clearly shows that while it was tough you & Mr LC never lost your true selves. No matter what you moved forward TOGETHER. Not a lot of people or marriages can say that. :) Congratulations again!
ReplyDeleteGood riddance, in a way? I'm happy you don't need this place anymore, but happy it was here when you needed it.
ReplyDelete5. Pretty unbelievable, no?
So excited to follow you as Ms. TL & that you have your beautiful family! I will say, honestly, I'm glad you blogged about it all because I know it helped me be a better friend & definitely increased my awareness/sensitivity to IF. Can't wait to see you in mommy mode! Still makes me grin ear to ear!
ReplyDeleteGood-bye, LCs...Hello, MTLs!
ReplyDeleteYes, really looking forward to reading about your next chapter. We just "turned the page" so to speak on our own story, and I am enjoying reading your story already a few chapters already in!
Here's to us all finding happiness whatever our ending.
A very moving post. A good idea to sign off here. Thank you for sharing your journey so far with us and looking forward to hearing about your new arrivals.
ReplyDeleteYeah, you do hope to get to that "oh well" point in the whole grieving and loss process. Good luck with this next chapter and blog of your life! I'm glad you two have new hopes to look forward to. Love and hugs.
ReplyDeleteHooray! Never have I been so glad to click 'unfollow'.
ReplyDeleteI was one of those who felt inspired by your IVF videos, not because of the end result because we all know we cannot control it, but by the way you handled your journey. It takes a special kind of person who can smack the ups/downs of life with smiles and courage. You inspire me in more ways than one. Esp since I have 5 IVFs with no success, not even a single double line once. I'll continue to follow your new blog and wish you the best in your next half of the marathon ..
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